

Rubber Faces Wall
Hi Uncle Buck, we were over at bl's studio the other day-- I told him you were doing well. I thought you'd enjoy this snapshot of his "rubber faces wall," an accumulation of drafts and experiments -- "rejects" he calls them-- with rubber band/balloon faces. He said he found several early ones while cleaning up ("like most of my best stuff"). They are the precursors to the "Elastics" series he and John have been working on; they have an AP set of six finished and framed, sig
Moving On
Life with Gracie has settled down considerably. We have comfortable routines, we know what to expect from each other, and we are blessed that she takes naps between her active periods. Alexis and I have teamed up well to care for her and move her training along. Gracie loves riding in the back of Alex's car, but still won't tolerate mine. We're working on it. Meanwhile, though, with my back going out, etc., I've continued to modify the studio space to suit our various needs,
Moments with Gracie, First Month
Remember the one about Gracie escaping the night of the Graham Nash concert? Remember that first night, Raven (at the time) howling in the laundry room-- our best idea of wlecoming accomodations-- and A. and I looking at each other, wondering what we had gotten ourselves into. Remember when I tried to acclimate Gracie to her bathroom area out back under the deck, and all she would do is dig furiously in the mulch-- and then later I discovered the nest of ground wasps? No wond
Dog People
I rarely meet a "dog person" I don't like. Of course, I/we feel a kinship and share a few words about our dogs when I meet them on the trail. But maybe it's more than that-- maybe dog people have more empathy, compassion, patience, love of nature's bounty and beauty, etc, -- or something else-- that sets them apart. Who am I to judge? Have you noticed how experienced dog owners love to share their experience, and are often free with advice about how you ought to be raising yo
Training, Status, Implications
So we spent our third in-home session with Heather yesterday mostly as a consultation rather than a training session. Right now, it seems the only viable option to board training, a 3-week boot camp with Heather, is to return her to Lab Rescue, and an unknown fate-- which neither of us is willing to do. Soooo, we are on the wait list with Heather at leadthewayk9training.com, with a possible appointment beginning April 9. That is nearly a month away, nearly the length of time
Limits. Boundaries.
We haven't been clear or effective in instructing Gracie about boundaries. Boundaries. We all need 'em, to function in this world. "She's looking for limits," we say. Well, of course she is. That's what "PLACE" or "HOME" or other words mean: Operating smoothly, and without question, for example, within the boundaries of the yard-- because she knows and accepts the boundaries no matter what, like Buster did. He ventured near the road, but never on it, even when chasing deer ou
Gracie: One-Month Review
Gracie has made wonderful progress with us during this past intense and eventful month. She is intelligent, alert and inquisitive.. oh, and then there is her energy level, often past the point of acceptable behavior. These very attributes make her the precious creature she is. They also point to trouble, when combined in the form of an untrained adolescent. We were caught off-guard, flat-footed, unprepared for her arrival that day. What were we thinking!? We overlooked the s
Training: Learning Limits
3/11-- It is humbling, after devoting the past month to Gracie's training, to admit that I've reached my limits-- physical, mental, and emotional. I started to doubt that we'd be successful last Thursday, when everything went a little akilter. Doubt deepened Friday with her regressing, and turned to despair on Saturday, when I could barely get out of bed and had no endurance. The key insight today was that my training wasn't sharp-- muddy commands, poor observation and timing
Grace Notes 5
Thurs, Mar 8-- Nearly everything was off-kilter this afternoon, and we are exhausted. We had a fine morning of ball play and birdwatching, and a nice nap, but she was above her hyper level most of the afternoon, and in no mood to learn at her PetCo lesson. Both our trainers say she's a difficult one.. I don't know whether that's reassuring or not. My biggest challenge other than rope burns from leash-pulling, is keeping myself disciplined and focused, remembering all the step
Grace Notes, 4
3/3/18-- Happy Birthday, Alexis! Dog is not an easy language to learn-- for me, harder than Norwegian-- which was already too hard. But my current necessity has me rivited on understanding what Grace's behavior, in all its bewildering variey and speed, means in human terms, in my terms. In many many respects, her dialect is different from Buster's or Gaia's, my companions over the past 20 years. Neither of them was obsessed with licking and nibbling hands, for example, as G